Alyssa, 24, creative and full of potential, begins her day every morning the same way: phone in hand, scrolling through Instagram. She sees friends traveling, celebrating promotions, or sipping coffee in picture-perfect cafés. At first, it feels harmless — just a bit of fun. But deep down, she starts to feel left behind. Her ownContinue reading “How Social Media Affects Our Mental Wellness”
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The 7 Pillars of Wellbeing: How to Build a Life That Feels Whole
Wellbeing isn’t just the absence of illness — it’s the presence of vitality, purpose, and connection. It’s the art of living a life that feels balanced and whole. Yes, sleep, nutrition, and exercise matter — but true wellbeing goes beyond physical health. It’s about weaving together the threads that create resilience, joy, and meaning. ResearchersContinue reading “The 7 Pillars of Wellbeing: How to Build a Life That Feels Whole”
Essential Skills to Overcome Mental Roadblocks
Essential Thinking Skills to Recognize and Overcome Mental Roadblocks. Imagine this… You send an important email to your manager early in the morning—a detailed project update you’re proud of. At first, you feel good. But as the hours pass and there’s no reply, you start to feeling uneasy and doubt creeps in.“Did I mess somethingContinue reading “Essential Skills to Overcome Mental Roadblocks”
Meet Your Inner Critic: Friend or Foe?
When I was a young counsellor, I remember a particular session that was unnerving for me. I was in a session with one of my married couple client. We started well talking about their improvements in their relationship thus far. They were both laughing away telling me of all the things that they have beenContinue reading “Meet Your Inner Critic: Friend or Foe?”
The Power of Self-Compassion
While we often extend compassion and kindness to others, we find it challenging to offer the same to ourselves. In our own times of suffering or pain, we can become our harshest critics. Instead of kindness, we bombard ourselves with negative thoughts: “You are not good enough,” “You are a loser,” “Nobody likes you,” “See, I told you, you are a mistake and a failure.” These self-condemnations are deeply painful.
The Power of Mindful Curiosity (Video)
What if you could transform your life by simply paying attention to what is happening right now? What if when you are mindful and curious about your feelings, thoughts, behaviours and sensations today, it can lead you towards a closer relationship with your family, friends, and community? That is the power of mindful curiosity.
Imperfect and Lovable (Video)
When we wake up in the morning, thoughts, all kinds of thoughts flood our minds. It could be leftover thoughts of unaccomplished work from last week. It could be thoughts about the worries of the future. It could be thoughts of past regrets. When these thoughts rush through our minds, we can feel defeated, drowning in these thoughts of our imperfections. We wonder, just wonder, “Am I lovable?” Totally!!!
How to Calm Your Stressed-Out Brain
Stress is common. We face stress regularly. Stress can be good, it causes you to be more alert, so that you can work better. However, when you are overwhelmed by stress, it can bring significant harmful health effects to your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. You can’t get rid of stress, but you can learn to calm it down.
Bringing Life to Your New Year’s Resolutions: Moving Beyond Goals
Setting goals, new plans, and forming New Year’s resolutions – we are all familiar with these. Some of us are excited about new goals. Some are reluctant, remembering the “failures” of previous years. Some are nonchalant. Whichever it is, here are some tips to Bring Life to Your New Year’s Resolutions so that you can live with vitality in 2023.
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